Jack always talked about his many friends at this church and the
great group of people that were here and every now and then I would
meet one of you when I visited Jack. It wasn't until Jack had to move
out of his apartment at the Lutheran Home and into a room in the main
building that I really understood what all of you meant to him. I
first met many of you when you showed up to help him through that
difficult period and without you he would not have gotten through
it. I still remember when he got a little testy that weekend and you
would just start singing a church song until he started laughing.
I sure heard a lot of singing that weekend! When it came time for
the yard sale and then the flea market sale you pulled together again
to help out. He was so proud of you and he really appreciated it.
His greatest comfort, however, was the steady stream of you that came
to visit him in the home and the rides to church on Sunday. He was
truly blessed with many friends and he loved each and every one of
you. I was with Jack the day he passed away in the hospital and the
day he was buried in Ohio. He had planned his funeral down to the
last detail many years ago and Curt and myself carried out all of
his wishes. He was buried with the ashes of his beloved dog, Amy,
in his Ministry robes next to his parents. He wanted you to know that
his spirit would always be right here, with his friends.
[For the Memorial at the Home, I prepared a eulogy about Jack's career
that very few knew about. He was not a person to talk very much about
the past, and they only knew him as a resident who was very unhappy
with being confined to a wheel chair and a person that could talk
very loudly. I would like to read the same eulogy for all of you.]
Jack moved into his independent living apartment here at the Home
in 1995. He was very happy there, with Amy his dog. He always had
visitors and he always had time to help those needing some advice.
He loved it there and retirement was good.
When Amy died he got a little upset at Dr. Reichard, the Director
of the Home, and myself for not letting him get another dog. Fortunately,
Jack took most of it out on Dr. Reichard, who is a trained professional
in this area, but in the long run Jack knew it was the right thing
to do. I won't talk about the time Dr. Reichard got a little upset
at Jack for tearing the front door of the Home off its hinges with
his electric cart.
The day he was told it was better if he moved into the home was a
difficult one for him. As one his neighbors said that day, she will
also be kicking and screaming when her time comes! It took awhile
to adapt to his new situation, but the great staff finally got him
squared away. When he needed more help, he was moved to another station,
but, as the staff knows, he was not very happy with the move!
Many of you heard him at one time or another talking very loudly
to the staff, but very few heard him apologize in the privacy of his
room, and he almost always did. He really loved them and they always
understood.
Beside the medical problems Jack was having, he just couldn't come
to grips that he was now dependent on others and needed a wheel chair.
I think I have some insight to the reasons why.
For almost 40 years Jack was totally involved helping handicapped
young adults, people with severe disabilities and disadvantaged kids.
He started in Cincinnati, Ohio where as the Pastor of the Lutheran
Church of the Cross; he had to do something to stop the gang-related
violence. He organized the Federation of Young Adult Lutherans to
get the kids off the street and into the church. He was so successful
with his Federation that it was adopted nationally by the Church.
In 1968 he went to work for the District of Columbia, Department
of Vocational Rehabilitation as a counselor for the placement and
coordinator of employment for handicapped young adults and individuals
with severe disabilities. He also trained the sponsors and supervisors
who were then sensitive to the needs of the handicapped young adults.
He averaged every year 500 summer job placements for the handicapped.
He lectured at local universities, colleges, and rehabilitation centers
on vocational evaluation for the handicapped and participated on almost
every committee for the handicapped and individuals with disabilities
in the District, Maryland and Northern Virginia. He retired from the
District of Columbia in 1989 when he turned 65.
He was a past President and Board Member of the DC Rehabilitation
Counseling Association and President of the Mid-Atlantic Region of
the National Rehabilitation Counseling Association.
He served on the Forest Heights Town Council; the Maryland Governor's
Council for Persons with Disabilities; the Board of Directors of the
New Day Wellness Coalition for Southern Maryland; the Board of Directors
of the Whitman-Walker Clinic of Maryland; and he was a Vocational
Counselor for the United Cerebral Palsy Association of Prince George's
County for 9 years.
In 1982 he helped found the Open Door Metropolitan Community Church
now located in Boyds and last week the Church choir visited the home
and sang Christmas Carols for Jack and all the residents of the floor.
In 1987 he founded the Chapel in the Woods in Upper Marlboro as a
retreat and worship program for the needy.
In 1995 he fully retired from public service when he moved to the
Home.
He was a National Certified Counselor, a Certified Rehabilitation
Counselor and a Certified Vocational Evaluator. He was a member of
the Grace Lutheran Church in Washington DC and the Open Door Metropolitan
Community Church in Boyds.
This is who Jack Seymour really was. He touched many, many people
through out his career and we will all miss him very much.
Since his death, I have talked to many of his very old friends located
all over the country; people that knew Jack for 40 years or more.
Their story is always the same; one of great friendship and Jack helping
them and helping the less fortunate.
We will never know the full scope of his reach, but many people had
their lives enriched with his friendship and he will be profoundly
missed by all. There is no better place to preserve his memory than
right here, a place he dearly loved, and I am very grateful to all
of you for what you are doing.
Eulogy offered by his cousin, Bill Llyod.